Archive for August, 2007

Another Imperfect Leader

Monday, August 20th, 2007

Had the most remarkable experience last week as our family visited the new Abraham Lincoln Museum and Library in Springfield IL.  What a wonderful and moving experience…it was absolutely an inspiring and insightful day of learning and remembering.  WOW! On one wall of the museum was a quote by another President - Roosevelt  - who when commenting on the  practice  of preserving records and maintaining archives said something I thought worth very wise and very worth sharing.

To maintain archival facilities and records, he argued that a “Nation must believe in three things. It must believe in the past. It must believe in the future. It must, above all, believe in the capacity of its own people so to learn from the past that they can gain in judgment in creating their own future.”  ~ Franklin D. Roosevelt

I was thrilled to see my kids learn and to learn along with them - so many wonderful things about a President we know so very little about…but who we reverence nonetheless.  Now I know more than I ever have before - and now I reverence him even more - not because of perfections, but because of his many imperfections and his ability to do so much in spite of them.

This week I shall share some quotes from this great man.

Kirk

…the need to be right.

Thursday, August 16th, 2007

Every once in a while I get to work closely with other trainers during my work.  One such trainer Janette Bailey, an absolutely brilliant, wonderful and wise person.  Every few months we do a Front Line Leader program together for some of the wonderful people from the Panasonic corporation.  Last year as she was teaching she shared an insight or idea that so struck and impressed me that I have pondered on again and again.  Even to this day I still think about it and reflect it and gain insights from it.  I give you this background…because I don’t want you to dismiss these few words before you truly consider how profound they are, especially in the context of relationships….and life.  Here is what she said.  

The Greatest Addiction of mankind is not sexual in nature, and it is not drugs or alcohol.  The greatest addiction of mankind is…the need to be right.  ~ Janette Bailey

Wow, she was right about that :)  ~ Kirk

The End isn’t Near - it’s already past

Wednesday, August 15th, 2007

“Don’t worry about the world coming to an end today. 

It’s already tomorrow in Australia.”

~ Charles Schultz

Kirk Out

Keep Water Out of Your Ship

Tuesday, August 14th, 2007

Heard this today at a meeting with some great young people where they were being taught how to guard themselves against the evils and filth of the world around them…and specifically on how to avoid pornography.  One speaker shared this poem which I really liked and wanted to share here with you. 

All the water in the world,
However hard it tried,
Could never sink the smallest ship
Unless it [gets] inside.

And all the evil in the world,
The blackest kind of sin,
Can never hurt you the least bit
Unless you let it in.

So - Don’t let it in.   ~  Kirk 

The Quiet Roar of Courage

Monday, August 13th, 2007

Courage does not always roar. Sometimes, it is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, “I will try again tomorrow”.  — Anonymous

grrrrrr  :)

Kirk Out

To think good thoughts requires effort.

Sunday, August 12th, 2007
To think bad thoughts is really the easiest thing in the world.  If you leave your mind to itself it will spiral down into ever increasing unhappiness.  To think good thoughts, however, requires effort.  This is one of the things that discipline - training - is about.

– James Clavell, in his novel “Shogun”

 So Let’s make the effort! 

~ Kirk  :)

think BE more than DO & Miraculous Googling

Thursday, August 9th, 2007

One must not always think so much about what one should do, but rather what one should be.  Out works do not ennoble us; but we must ennoble our works.  ~Meister Eckhart.

In response to yesterday’s T4D comes this incredible and inspiring story from Beth who upon reading about my ego surfing on google placed in her own name.  The results of her search move beyond the realm of magic and into the realm of miraculous.  I think you will enjoy Beth’s e-mail and story.

Hi, Kirk,     Thank you always for sharing your thoughts and stories.  They help to inspire me and keep me focused on what’s important in this journey of life.

When I read your thought for today, I thought … “good point, I wonder what would show up if I googled my name.”  So, I did.  At the top of the page when I type in my name, was a reference to an article I had written over 3 years ago for a small monthly magazine about my son, Aaron.  I was surprised that it showed up, but also delighted, because it’s a thought worth sharing.  The entry below that article (on Google) was a reference in the alumni newsletter from the college where my husband and I graduated regarding my son’s accident in January, 2006.  I don’t often feel the need to broadly share my son’s story, but thought you might appreciate it since you have such a genuine concern for people.  It’s an amazing story, and I don’t want to take up too much of your valuable time, but if you have some leisure time, and would like to read about his journey over the past 8 years, go to www.caringbridge.org/visit/aaronleverence.  My husband tries to update the site every few days with Aaron’s progress (which is a true miracle).  It’s a little hard to follow the story due to how he had to get around the limitations on the site, but the Journal is fairly accurate.

In a nutshell, Aaron developed Schizophrenia when he was 15.  The illness got progressively worse over the years, and Aaron spent a lot of time in mental institutions.  On January 29, 2006, the illness was so bad that it caused Aaron to run into traffic on a major highway in Wisconsin where he was struck by a car traveling at normal highway speeds.  Aaron’s life was miraculously spared with injuries primarily isolated to his legs.  When he had surgery to correct the break to his femur bone in his right leg, fat emboli escaped from his bone and traveled directly to his brain (normally the fat emboli passes through the lungs and is filtered there) causing severe brain damage, and Aaron went into a coma.   We were told that the likelihood of Aaron coming out of the coma was very slim, and he would probably live out the rest of his life in a vegetative state.  However, we never gave up hope, and many prayers were raised to God on Aaron’s behalf.  Despite the doctor’s predictions, Aaron did come out of the coma.  Praise God!  However, that is only 1/2 the story.  When Aaron came out of the coma, his Schizophrenia was dramatically eased, and in fact it’s almost entirely gone.  Aaron is now living in an apartment with a roommate; he received his GED; he’s enrolled at a technical college full time this fall; he’s working part time.

I realize how very busy you are, but I wanted to tell you about Aaron, because I think his story is so very inspiring.  Some day when my husband and I can find the time, we hope to write a book.  We feel strongly that Aaron’s story is one of inspiration, hope, and the awesome power of God.  We also feel that most people don’t understand mental illness, and the horrific impact it has on people’s lives.  My hope is that we can provide insight for people based on our experiences with Aaron.

Make it a great day, Kirk.

– Beth

WOW - thank you Beth!  If you want to respond to Beth and comment on her story I invite you to do so at the posting of this T4D on my blog at www.kirkweisler.com/t4d

Google Yourself - Johann the Dog

Wednesday, August 8th, 2007

Have you ever typed your name into Google?  You know just to see who might have the same name as you, or if your driving record is posted somewhere, or just to see what happens?  Every once in a while I type in the name of my book the, Dog Poop Initiative to see what happens…I find that there are a lot of cities passing ”initiatives” to encourage people to clean up after their dogs.  But the other day I found something really cool. 

website - but not just a website… a website that was was run by a Dog.   A dog called Johann.  Really it is pretty cool - the whole site including the BLOG is written from the perspective of a Dog commenting on the world as he sees it.  Pretty clever, I thought, and when he commented on my books website www.dogpoopinitiative.com/ (favorably) I decided to send Johann the Dog a gift copy and some extras. 

Johann gets a Surprise Package         Woof Woof - aka Thanks

I thought his Blog Response to receiving it (found at this link ) with pictures was worth a T4d mention…as was just the clever nature of Johann’s website. http://www.johannthedog.com/ 

If your not a dog lover…well tomorrow I’ll have something else just for you!

I want to thank everyone for their anniversary wishes yesterday - and for your cool quotes and testimonials in support of The Dog Poop Initiative.  You guys bless my life.

Kirk Out

Living the Dream & My Wedding Anniversary!!

Tuesday, August 7th, 2007

On our wedding day 16 years ago!

Today I celebrate 16 years of marriage with my wife, best friend, and total team mate Rebecca!  What a most exciting journey it has been for us.  I feel today about our lives together much the same as I did last year when I wrote…

“I AM LIVING A DREAM” I have a Most Wonderful Wife, Partner Teammate and Friend in Rebecca and feel most blessed to walk with her during this mortal experience called life! I have 5 very good kids who look after one another and are healthy, whole and happy. We as a family together have all that we need…there is no single artifact of object that any of us desire or enjoy more than we desire and enjoy being together. We know this and talk about it often. We have remarkable and generous friends and family and share a measure of peace and joy in our daily lives and walk that is both tangible to us, and noticed by others who comment on it when they visit our home.

We have the typical home the cars and the stuff that most American families have…but we are consciously aware that the “stuff” is just that …stuff.  If we lost it all it would be inconvenient and sad…but only for a moment. The real joy and significance of our lives comes from being together as husband and wife, and with our children.

As a youth, I remember occasional imaginings about what I hoped my marriage would be like - But, I never imagined so much joy and happiness was possible… truly then my life now is both a dream in the making and a dream come true all at the same time.”

The “Dream” I am living,  continues on … as life does.  I believe we create our own realities, we write our own stories, we determine our own destiny with the choices we make and the words we use to describe our journey.  This is what I believe, it is what I have come to know to be true.

I am living a dream of my own creation, enhanced, blessed, and magnified by faith and the words I speak.  It is a dream filled with challenges that invite growth and require refinement.  And one of the reasons of I love it so much, is because Rebecca seems to bring every day to a close with a “Happily Ever After” ending, just as she brings a sense of excitement, adventure and possibility to the dawn of every new day.

Live the Dream - Love Your Life - Grow and Become - and Celebrate

Thanks for letting me share

Kirk

Hey, check it out - Every T4D is posted as a BLOG at http://kirkweisler.com/t4d/

“Information Please”

Monday, August 6th, 2007

This wonderful story has got to be right out of a Chicken Soup book….at first I thought it might be too sentimental, and, of course, I didn’t want you guys thinking I was some kinda softie : ) I read it through once, read it again, and by the 3rd time through….I knew that at least one of you needed to hear it.

As for the rest of you…you know how to use your delete key.

Kirk

INFORMATION PLEASE

When I was quite young, my father had one of the first telephones in our neighborhood. I remember well the polished old case fastened to the wall.

The shiny receiver hung on the side of the box. I was too little to reach the telephone, but used to listen with fascination when my mother used to talk to it.

Then I discovered that somewhere inside the wonderful device lived an amazing person - her name was “Information Please “and there was nothing she did not know. “Information Please” could supply anybody’s number and the correct time.

My first personal experience with this genie-in-the-bottle came one day while my mother was visiting a neighbor. Amusing myself at the tool bench in the basement, I whacked my finger with a hammer. The pain was terrible, but there didn’t seem to be any reason in crying because there was no one home to give sympathy. I walked around the house sucking my throbbing finger, finally arriving at the stairway. The telephone! Quickly, I ran for the footstool in the parlor and dragged it to the landing. Climbing up, I unhooked the receiver in the parlor and held it to my ear. “Information Please,” I said into the mouthpiece just above my head. A click or two and a small clear voice spoke into my ear “Information.” “I hurt my finger. . .” I wailed into the phone. The tears came readily enough now that I had an audience.

“Isn’t your mother home?” came the question.

“Nobody’s home but me,” I blubbered.

“Are you bleeding?”

“No,” I replied. “I hit my finger with the hammer and it hurts.”

“Can you open your icebox?” she asked.

I said I could.

“The chip off a little piece of ice and hold it to your finger,” said the voice.

After that, I called “Information Please” for everything. I asked her for help with my geography and she told me where Philadelphia was. She helped me with my math. She told me my pet chipmunk that I had caught in the park just the day before would eat fruits and nuts. Then, there was the time Petey, our pet canary died. I called “Information Please” and told her the sad story. She listened, and then said the usual things grown-ups say to soothe a child. But I was unconsoled. I asked her, “Why is it that birds should sing so beautifully and bring joy to all families, only to end up as a heap of feathers on the bottom of a cage?

“She must have sensed my deep concern, for she said quietly,

“Paul, always remember that there are other worlds to sing in.”

Somehow I felt better. Another day I was on the telephone.

“Information Please.”

“Information,”said the now familiar voice.

“How do you spell fix?”, I asked.

All this took place in a small town in the Pacific Northwest. When I was 9 years old, we moved across the country to Boston. I missed my friend very much. “Information Please” belonged in that old wooden box back home, and somehow I never thought of trying the tall, shiny new phone that sat on table in the hall. As I grew into my teens, the memories of those childhood conversations never really left me. Often, in moments of doubt and perplexity I would recall the serene sense of security I had then. I appreciated now how patient, understanding, and kind she was to have spent her time on a little boy.

A few years later, on my way west to college, my plane touched down in Seattle. I had about half an hour or so between planes. I spent 15 minutes or so on the phone with my sister, who lived there now, and, without thinking what I was doing, I dialed my hometown operator and said,

“Information, Please.”

Miraculously, I heard the small, clear voice I knew so well,

“Information.”

I hadn’t planned this but I heard myself saying,

“Could you please tell me how to spell fix?”

There was a long pause. Then came the soft-spoken answer.

“I guess your finger must have healed by now.”

I laughed. “So it’s really still you,” I said. “I wonder if you have any idea how much you meant to me during that time.”

“I wonder,” she said, “if you know how much your calls meant to me. I never had any children, and I used to look forward to your calls.”

I told her how often I had thought of her over the years and I asked if I could call her again when I came back to visit my sister.

“Please do, she said. “Just ask for Sally.”

Three months later I was back in Seattle. A different voice answered.

“Information.” I asked for Sally.

“Are you a friend?” she asked.

“Yes, a very old friend,” I answered.

“I’m sorry to have to tell you this,” she said, “Sally had been working part-time the last few years because she was sick. She died five weeks ago.”

Before I could hang up she said, “Wait a minute. Is your name Paul?”

“Yes.”

“Well, Sally left a message for you. She wrote it down in case you called. Let me read it to you.” The note says, “Tell him I still say there are other worlds to sing in. He’ll know what I mean.” I thanked her and hung up. I knew what Sally meant.

Never underestimate the impression you may make on others.

 Kirk Out