Visiting on the phone with my parents yesterday just cathing up and Mom slipped this one into the conversation.  “Some people have attitudes like flat tires, and if they don’t change them they are not going to get very far.”  ~ Wanda Weisler

When I was little she motivated me to make my bed, wash behind my ears(sometimes), be nice, bathe and even share my cookies.  Now nearly 46 years later she’s still bringing the heat!  Thanks MOM!

Kirk

I recieved 3 seperate e-mails this morning almost at the exact same moment.  As I read the messages of each they seemed connected. (at least to me)   Perhaps it is because I will be turning 45 in a couple weeks and have long been noticing and acknowledging that the reflection in the bathroom mirror isn’t what it used to be.  :)  My wife claims she likes my more “settled” look?!   

While I am not so sure about looking “settled’… I am sure that I do want to live a life filled with purposeful pursuits, enjoying the bliss, the hardship and the challenging experiences that are the stuff that life is made of… and I want to recommit myself to living more fully each new day.

I invite you to enjoy the quotes… and this fresh new day (and week)

Some people try to turn back their odometers. Not me, I want people to know why I look this way. I’ve traveled a long way and some of the roads weren’t paved.  — Will Rogers

“Anyone who imagines that bliss is normal is going to waste a lot of time running around shouting that he has been robbed. The fact is that most putts don’t drop, most beef is tough, most children grow up to be just like people, most successful marriages require a high degree of mutual toleration, and most jobs are more often dull than otherwise. Life is just like an old time rail journey … delays, sidetracks, smoke, dust, cinders, and jolts, interspersed only occasionally by beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of speed. The trick is to thank the Lord for letting you have the ride.” - Gordon B. Hinckley

“Time is limited, so I better wake up every morning fresh and know that I have just one chance to live this particular day right, and to string my days together into a life of action, and purpose.”  ~ Lance Armstrong

Time is limited …. so live each moment.  Kirk Out

Penni, from Right Now Technologies, shared this wonderful picture with me this morning… I had to pass it along.

The caption read.  Two of the greatest qualities in life are: Patience and Wisdom 

I couldn’t agree more. 

Be wise…. and enjoy your weekend.

    Courage is the greatest of all the virtues. Because if you haven’t courage, you may not have an opportunity to use any of the others.  — Samuel Johnson (1709-1784) English Author

  I was thinking today about listening… and more specifically about learning to “listen well”.  My friend Roger Anthony often said, “We’ve been given 2 ears and only 1 mouth and we should use them in that same proportion by listening at least twice as much as we speak.”

I read a quote the other day that said something to the efffect of “Intelligence may speak, but wisdom listens.” 

In the animal kingdom the ability and skill of listening well is key to survival…but to predator and prey.  I can think some speciies of animals that are naturally blind but none that are deaf. (Though I suspect a few of you will e-mail immediately to let me know what I am ignorant of )  The blind animals even more so than those that can see, rely on their highy developed listening skills to survive. 

I think we can all take a lesson from them and increase our chances for professional and personal survival and success by learning better to listen…and as Dr. Covey taught so well….seeking first to understand, then to be understood.

Nearly every time in my life that I have put my foot in my mouth might have easiliy been avoided if my ear was there instead.

As a professional speake,r or a professional person, learning to speak well is important.  But learning to listen is vital.  Learning to listen is a matter of survival and is a definate determinate of success. 

Today I will not only listen more… Today I will listen better.

Kirk, keeping the foot out!

Wonderful Quotes:…I wonder if you’ll be able to spot my favorite of the bunch!

Many people will walk in and out of your life,  but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.

To handle yourself, use your head;
To handle others, use your heart.

Anger is only one letter short of danger.

Great minds discuss ideas;
Average minds discuss events;
Small minds discuss people.

He who loses money, loses much;
He, who loses a friend, loses much more;
He, who loses faith, loses all.

Beautiful young people are accidents of nature,
But beautiful old people are works of art.

Learn from the mistakes of others.
You can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.

Kirk Out

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“It is easier to come up with new ideas than it is to…let go of the old ones.”  Peter Drucker

It’s my guess that not being willing to let go holds back more people and more institutions than not knowing does.  Kirk Out

My boss told me… that most people change when the “fear of changing is less than the fear of staying the same”.

An example might be the doctor saying something like “I give you about 6 months to live if you don’t stop doing ______. ”   

People will also change ought of frustration which comes when the realization that what they are doing and have been doing is not working.  In this scenario they either choose to blame, point and wait for the world to change and provide a reward for their behavior or they finally conclude… they must do something differently to realize a new result. 

Another reason “change happens” is because leadership is present.  Good leaders are great teachers and they use their gift of teaching to help people see why change is necessary, why change is good, and how change can bless lives, pocketbooks, and make the world (of work or in general) a better place to live, work and play.   Wise leaders do this long before the “fear” phase sets in because they constantly pro-active in preparing their people and organizations for the future.

When I reflect on all the major positive and powerful changes I made in my life without a doctor or fear being present…. I conclude quickly that a leader was present.  A leader who cared enough to take the time to teach me and help me see with clarity a future that was brighter, and richer and more wonderful …. a future that was waiting for someone like me to come and create it, sieze it and enjoy it.  The vision of myself in the future was a lot like me…only it was a  better me… a changed me.  And that vision and that leader helped me choose to change without fear… instead I was filled with faith, hope, belief, and desire.  And anyone filled with those things is going to change…… for better….the world….

Kirk Out

Stewardship by Jim Rohn

How much should you make? As much as you possibly can. It doesn’t matter whether it’s $10,000 a year or $100,000 a year as long as you’ve done the best you can.   The man says, “If I had a fortune, I’d take good care of it.  But I only have a paycheck and I don’t know where it all goes.”

Wouldn’t you love to have him running your company?  If you wish to have power and influence over the many, be faithful (disciplined) when there are just a few. If you have a few employees, a few distributors, a few people, that’s the time to stay in touch and be totally absorbed - when there is just a few.   Start from wherever you are and with whatever you’ve got.

Make it a great day, it’s your choice!

Kirk Out

   I had the need yesterday to reconsider a few things I said when a wiser person would have said nothing.  There was no way to get the words back…they were out there.  There was nothing to do except to apologize.  Something I have had a lot of experience with.  Which is probably both a good and bad thing.  Harder than saying your sorry can be letting go of it yourself…but this must be done, we must do what we can to make it right, move on and be done with it.  If not we may be creating something else we’ll regret.  We must not let the mistakes and blunders of yesterday creep in and darken the hope and potential of today.   I love what Emerson had to say on the subject.

“Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day. You shall begin it serenely with too high a spirt to be encumbered with your old nonsense.” ~Emerson

Kirk Out